The relationship between Bishop Kiengei, a prominent Kenyan preacher and media personality, and Damaris “Dama wa Spares” Muriithi, a wealthy businesswoman, has been one of the most controversial and talked-about sagas in Kenya’s religious and social circles.
Their association, which began as a close friendship and church partnership, later spiraled into public feuds, leaked audio scandals, and allegations of infidelity and hypocrisy. Below is a detailed breakdown of their tumultuous relationship.
1. The Beginning: Friendship and Church Partnership
Dama wa Spares was initially a close friend and financial supporter of Bishop Kiengei’s church, Jesus Compassion Ministries (JCM). She was the matron of the Nairobi branch and was instrumental in funding the church’s early development.
Kiengei publicly acknowledged her contributions, stating that she was among those who helped the church grow from a simple structure with steel pillars into a fully established ministry.
Their friendship was so strong that Bishop Kiengei once bragged about her financial support, saying:
“If I need Ksh 2 million at any time, I just call Dama.”
However, their bond would soon face a dramatic and very public collapse.
2. The Leaked Audio Scandal (September 2024)
In September 2024, an explosive audio recording surfaced online, where Dama was heard making shocking claims about Bishop Kiengei’s personal life, including:
- Alleging that they had an extramarital affair.
- Calling him a “drunkard” who frequently partied at her house with friends.
- Accusing him of having multiple girlfriends despite being a married bishop.
Bishop Kiengei responded defiantly, telling his congregation:
“I am blessed beyond a curse. No evil network can bring me down.”
Despite the scandal, his church remained packed, with supporters rallying behind him.
3. The Fallout: Public Feuds and Accusations
After the leaked audio, their relationship deteriorated rapidly:
- Dama resigned from her position at JCM and distanced herself from the bishop.
- In December 2024, she fiercely criticized Kiengei for defending a man accused of domestic violence, saying:“Some women are battered because of their mistakes.”
Dama called his remarks “shameful” and accused him of misusing the pulpit for personal grudges. - She also exposed his alleged drinking habits, claiming she used to host him and his friends for parties.
Kiengei, however, remained unshaken, even supporting Dama’s brother’s business in March 2025—a move that surprised many given their feud.
4. Recent Developments (2025)
- Kiengei Acknowledges Dama’s Past Support (March 2025)
During JCM’s second anniversary, Kiengei surprisingly thanked Dama for her past contributions, showing maturity despite their fallout. - Dama’s Pregnancy Controversy (April 2025)
Dama is now heavily pregnant, with rumors suggesting that Gatundu North MP Njoroge Kururia—a known womanizer—is the father.
Conclusion
The Kiengei-Dama saga highlights the complexities of mixing personal relationships, money, and ministry. What began as a mutually beneficial partnership turned into a publicly messy feud, filled with allegations of infidelity, hypocrisy, and financial ties.
While Kiengei has maintained his church’s support, Dama has moved on, focusing on her business and personal life. Yet, their story remains a cautionary tale about the dangers of blurred boundaries between spiritual leadership and personal alliances.
Drop Your Comments, What do you think About The Article?