Article By Luke C Divines,
Men Have Realized Women have their Plan B & I See More Divorces day in day out and nobody cares, all they care is personal happiness and to make sure they maintain these people lie in their marriages. We all live in denial.
Marriage today is more of a contractual union, not the sacrosanct matrimonial union that it once was. And if you will allow me a little latitude Luke, women these days have more than one husband in their marriages. They call this a “Plan B” which simply means that they are not loyal to their legal husbands. There must be another or others in the side should things fall apart.
I concur with my friend above. We all see it.
LUKE THINKS IT WOMEN’S PLAN B’s ARE not for when things fall apart. This thing is just pure lust. These women have mastered polyandry from college and universities where MOST if not all female students had more than one partner. They learned how to juggle between all these lovers. They may have a Bachelor’s degree in Commerce but a “masters degree” in Polyandry.
Men too have multiple. Men are as immoral and no better. But society seems to understand men as polygamists by nature. BUT MEN STILL HURT WOMEN BY THESE ACTS, leading to revenge mission by women
Back to the women. Women who are used to polyandric relationships, sticking to one man in marriage is penitentiary of a kind that some cannot manage. Not when strings are still intact between her and the Exes, and new wealthy spare wheels avail themselves without stress. Thinks are like that
WOMEN TODAY HAVE BETTER JOBS AND MORE CASH, NOT ILL-GOT, BUT WELL-GOT.
Many are educated and are self-reliant. For many, they are not so much after the plan B’s cash as they are after pleasure with them. Some married women today pay Ben Tens for a perfect job.
BUT IN ALL THESE, SOMEONE WILL LOSE SOMETHING WHICH SHE WILL ONLY REGRET TOWARDS THE SUNSET OF LIFE. A man can remarry even at 100 YEARS. Unfortunately, women tend to depreciate with age. Some divorced women can only keep changing “WOMEN EATERS OF TSAVO”, but not a new marriage partner. Men are tricky
Even Boss’s Mzungu may never marry her. Plan Bs only enjoy eating other men’s dishes. But wakiachiwa wachukue, some cannot manage.
WHAT WOMEN DO NOT KNOW IS THAT WHILE THEY ARE IN THOSE PLAN B’s, THEIR MEN HAVE KNOWN WHAT’S GOING ON, & ARE BUSY WORKING ON PLA C’s. Sam at 60 is settled with his 30-year-old. Trust me, it will not be that easy for Boss. Even if she remarries, she may end up with another divorce, esp if she marries Uzunguni where marriage is more fragile than in Africa.
By the end of all that good life, many such women will end up lonely in their later years while the men are being cuddled by some Manyanga.
In this regard, women should think twice, or thrice, about Plan Bs, and rather work on making the most out of their current marriages notwithstanding the challenges. Of course, in extreme cases, divorce is an option
IN MY CONCLUSION,
I CANNOT BLAME WOMEN FOR ENJOYING THEIR LIVES WITH PLAN Bs. I’m not a woman. They know better. But choices have consequences. BUT I GUESS SOME MEN INCLUDING LUKE DIVINES WILL OPT TO DIVORCE EVEN 1000 TIMES, RATHER THAN HAVE KNOWN CO-HUSBANDS. MEN WILL HAVE TO WEIGH BETWEEN DANGERS THEY ARE EXPOSED TO WITH CO-HUBBIES, OR THE PAIN OF DIVORCE AND REMARRIAGE.
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