To my future man?
Maybe you are with somebody else right now. Perhaps you are unrequitedly in love ? or maybe you are also waiting for your special someone to come. Maybe you are waiting for me too.
You have no idea how much I have anticipated your arrival. Although, I just want you to know some reminders before you finally invest your time and emotions with me?
First?, I feel too much. I will love you until my last breath. No one will ever come across and I will let you feel like the king that you are. I’m clingy because I crave for you so much – not in a sexual way but because your presence will be like a drug that I will be addicted to. And when I say “I love you,” it will actually mean…Till death do us part
Second?, Not abiding with all your demands won’t mean I don’t care about your feelings anymore – no. I want you to make me feel like I can be comfortable. I want you to know that your approval is the most important thing to me and I want your trust. That I can manage myself because you can believe am a strong woman whose heart will be yours only?
Third?, Don’t get me wrong but I don’t want you to prioritize me. You had your own world before you meet me. You have your family, friends, dreams, and goals. I don’t want you to get confined with the idea of ‘us’ when in fact, we can be a ‘we’. You can take me to your world, together with all the important people in our lives. We will have a bigger world full of love and care. Because we will be a family – yours and mine, unified and amalgamated, with no one being left behind. You should not sacrifice friendships just because you already have me, but rather let me become acquainted with them, too. So I can know you more from their stories, and I will let you do the same.
Fourth?, be honest with me. Tell me anything. I can listen to every rant, every concern, every good and bad day you have had at work or just the little things. Communication is the key to a healthy relationship. And as long as we will have each other, expect that you will have no boring days because you already have me. I will be with you in every endeavor, every trial, and every blessing that we will encounter. We will walk side by side, thanking God and the stars that we got each other, that we will never feel alone any longer?.
And last is let me take care of you. I will understand if you will also do the same things that I have stated above and believe me – I have no problems with it at all because like you, I will trust our love for each other. I know, by now, we have already learned so much from our previous relationships and I thank God that He will let us meet at His perfect time.
Have faith when I say this when we meet:
“From this day forward, I will do my best to keep your face smiling, your heart filled with love and your dreams be achieved – with me by your side”.
When that time comes. Please allow me to be the right woman for you and I will allow you to be the right man for me. Please do believe that forever exists. God is preparing a forever for the two of us. We will have our own kind of forever. We will have our own version of Happily Ever After.
Someday we will meet and the chapter of our forever will begin. But before we begin our forever, I pray that you already live your life the way that God has planned for you. The kind of love that can give 100% without expecting in return. Above all else, I pray that you will guard your heart because it is the wellspring of your life
When that time comes?. .Let me know your greatest fear, your strength, and weaknesses, what makes you happy, what makes you sad. I want to know you. The old you. And the new you. I can’t wait to tell you stories about my failures and success. I am so eager to tell you so much. And while be telling stories, hold my hand like no one has held it before. Kiss me like it is always our first time?. Hug me like you don’t want to lose me. Please do believe that God has already written you a beautiful love story. And when God was writing your love story He was thinking of me.
And someday, when we have both wrinkles and white hair, we are going to hold our hands and watch the beautiful sunset and we gonna say “we made it”
So, stay calm because our forever is coming too soon. A kind of forever that is perfectly, wonderfully and beautifully written by God
I will be waiting for you.
With lot’s of Love
Your future girl?