Article by Luke C Divines
Gladys Sholei Going Out Public With Love Photos Soon After Divorce Speaks Volumes About Her.
Wedding photos are respectable if you have grown kids with friends who look at parents as role models in society. In this, Sam scored highly.
In the African Culture, a woman would be respected if she behaved respectfully publicly. People understand when a woman remarries. But when it is not a marriage but just a relationship replete with love photos, it betrays it suggests a well planned extramarital affair that existed months or years before the divorce, most probably propelling her to initiate divorce.
Sam did it, and we thought it is because men are mafisi. Now everyone is fisi! In the Sam and Gladys Sholei marital fiasco, after gathering some more sensitive info from sources close to the Boss family, I concluded that, like in most such cases, mistakes were made on both sides.
No party is clean in a marriage. However, some partners simply take advantage of the other party’s weakness or fault to blow things out of proportion, go out and do things that justify their acts. I’m told Gladys had a busy lifestyle. Then I’m told Sam did some shameful things. You can add one to one here.
A busy spouse creates a recipe for conjugal trouble at home. You cannot sleep with a busy woman. She’s ever too tired to give it to you. But on the other hand for a man to sleep around with just anything in a skirt or tight trouser because he is denied something at home, is not justified.
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The lifestyle of the two made them maritally discordant, finally. They had to part ways, which in my view, the better. Each one now has the right to rebuild their lives and move on.
I HOWEVER CHIDE GLADYS SHOLEI BOSS MZUNGU. IT IS OBVIOUS SHE AND OTIERO HAD BEEN IN RELATIONSHIP FOR LONG. PROBABLY WHILE STILL IN MARRIAGE. AS A MOTHER AND GRANNY IN SOCIETY WHERE WE ARE STRUGGLING TO TEACH YOUNG GIRLS MORALS, SHE SHOULD HAVE NOT GONE PUBLIC WITH HER NEW LOVE TOO SOON.
She has disgraced the children, even if they knew her marital problems unless they are also as depraved in their thinking these photos will have some effects. Looking at my mother being cuddled so tightly in the bosom of a white new dad in public… These photos should be for private consumption, not fit for public view.
Can Gladys say these photos were not posted to the public by either one or the other?
BUT AFTER ALL, IS SAID AND DONE, RAHA JIPE MWWENYEWE. LIFE HAS NO REVERSE GEAR. SOME OF US HV CHOSE HEAVEN HERE, HELL BAADAYE.
Choices have consequences!