1. WHERE ARE YOU GOING TO LIVE AFTER WEDDING?
Compulsory! So the guy won’t drag you back to his father’s house or squat with a friend. Discuss the type of apartment: a room, room, and parlor, a mini flat, 2 bedroom flat, 3 bedrooms, duplex, complex, whatever, talk, thoroughly. Don’t forget to discuss how the rent will be paid. If he has built his house and you are moving in, excellent.
2. WILL YOU HAVE BABIES IMMEDIATELY OR YOU WILL WAIT?
During Courtship Discuss thoroughly. If you will wait, find out the best family planning method that will suit your body. Not all injections and pills are suitable for you. Withdrawal is not advisable for first-time sex on honeymoon likewise condom. First sex should be done with abandon and also get used to each other’s bodies, especially as virgins. Singles who are sexually active right now are digging their marital grave.
If you are already having sex like mad and taking family planning pills as a single lady, it is a big shame and a disgrace to womanhood. Marry with dignity. Save sex until your wedding night.
3. COURTSHIP DISCUSS HOW BILLS WILL BE PAID?
Who will pay the rent, take care of bills and groceries? Is it the man? The woman or both of you? At how many percentages if it is a joint responsibility? 50/50? 80/20? 60/40? Discuss.
4. WILL ANY FAMILY MEMBER LIVE WITH YOU AFTER WEDDING?
During Courtship Discuss. Who and who will live with you? Why? For how long? Can you cope with having a family live with you immediately after the honeymoon? Can your type of accommodation allow such? It is not advisable for the opposite sex sibling to live with you after the honeymoon in a room apartment. It is more dangerous if it is the wife’s very mature younger sister. Use your head!
5. WILL YOUR WIFE WORK OR STAY AT HOME AS A FULL TIME HOUSE WIFE?
During Courtship Discuss. It is not good for anyone to stay idle. Eve was idle when the serpent came to deceive her! Many local gossips and over-talkative, quarrelsome women are idle. If she can’t go to work,